“Because we didn’t have a lot of money when we were first married, and Tom was always on a low-fat diet. And, so we were restricted to eating low fat. I couldn’t, I didn’t have the freedom to go out and just buy what I wanted or what I felt would sustain me and so I lost a lot of weight. I’m sure part of stress, but part of the fact that we just didn’t have the food sources that I needed and, so, I, that is in the rough draft.” – Jennifer Buck, 3:10 mark.

Tom lacks self-control regarding food, something the Scriptures call gluttony, and his wife’s health suffered because of it. The level of control exerted to convince a person that they cannot purchase the food they need is a classic sign of narcissistic abuse.